James Ezenachi

  Why anger is good for you. Anger, even though a destructive emotion, is a required catalyst for growth. - James Ezenachi Understanding this concept will make you value anger. If you have never gotten angry with your situations and inabilities, you may never be propelled to seek growth. Many of us are where we are today because of the level of anger that we entertain. And I know, we have been trained and groomed to think and believe that anger is a bad thing, a negative emotion that we should avoid at all cost. While I understand the reason for this logical position, I also understand that perspective is everything. So, if the reason why you have been told to desist from anger and the underlying emotions is because of the possible havoc it can wreak in a person and their fellow, especially when one person feels hurt by another and they are pushed to have a revenge. Yes, for that I understand and agree. However, when I talk about anger from a different perspective, it is in the lig...

Life has a way of throwing challenges at us when we least expect it. It can sometimes feel like everything we’ve worked for is slipping away—our job, our relationships, our health, or our peace of mind. We may face setbacks that seem impossible to overcome, leaving us questioning everything we thought we knew. Yet, even in the face of loss, there is one thing that should never be allowed to slip away: your will. Even if you lose it all, by all means, never lose your will. This is a reminder that the most important asset you have is your inner drive—the will to keep going, to keep pushing forward, and to keep fighting for what you believe in. Your will is the foundation upon which all other successes are built. When everything else falls apart, your will is what will hold you up, help you rise again, and eventually lead you to rebuild. What Is the Will? At its core, will is your ability to persevere through adversity. It’s the inner strength that fuels your determination, the fire that ...

The fastest way to grow is to already see the growth before it happens. This may sound like a paradox, but it’s actually a profound truth that has been embraced by some of the most successful people in history. Growth, whether personal, professional, or emotional, begins in the mind. If you can visualize your success before it materializes, you can set the stage for real, tangible progress in your life. Our mind’s eye is one of our most powerful tools. Yet, far too often, we neglect it or fail to harness its full potential. The truth is, your mind’s eye is yours for the beckoning. It’s a tool that can be used to unlock your greatest potential. The key is learning how to use it effectively, and once you do, it becomes the fastest way to grow and manifest your dreams. What Does It Mean to See Your Growth Before It Happens? At first glance, the idea of seeing growth before it happens might seem like wishful thinking or pure fantasy. But it’s not about imagining something that is unrealist...

Indeed it can change your reality and make it better if you know how to apply its powers Believing means trusting even without any evidence or beam of light of the possibility that something can happen or that something will happen, yet you trust that it will happen Belief is like a magic wand that can give you that which you desire if you trust that it can  When you believe in something or that something will happen it is important to state that for it to take its full course and expend its magical ability, you have to have an unwavering and near-blind trust it will manifest  When there is no trust in the belief process then it will be an adventure of the follies Many things have been achieved on the hills of absolute belief without doubt, so for you to activate its powers you must rid your mind and consciousness of doubts of any kind A very good and popular example is religion The belief in the mighty powers of Jesus Christ has led many Christians to experience many unexplai...

In the times that we live in today, having an easy pass is gradually becoming the norm and people are putting it on a pedestal of accomplishment Life is meant to be challenging and also rewarding However, the seeking of an easy pass is gradually overcoming the need for strength, skill, and experience. This is so because many people have been sucked into the idea that the end justifies the means and so they do not need to go through the rigor of challenges of the process before achieving something, but rather they can take a shortcut and as long as they get the trophy that's all that matters Forgetting that with challenges comes experience and strength because overcoming a challenging task or situation will require that you skill up, apply strength, or be tenacious. This for one now becomes the benefits of the challenges, because if you skilled-up so that you can able to overcome a challenging task, then that skill remains with you and can also be employed for the same challenge in ...

Stop trying to delay failures. It's a losing strategy, make them quick and move on. In this post, I want to cover the concept of making your failures quick and moving on to something else that will probably be better Delaying failures as we know is when you are in a situation, where you already know that something is not working or that it is not going to work or you have done as much as you can do or as much as your capacity can carry, but yet, it is not working, and at this point your intuition is telling you that this is not going to work and you have seen the signs but you keep holding on to it.  You keep delaying the fact that this is already a failure.  You need to stop and re-strategize.  You need to change your strategy and move on to something better instead of holding on to it. I get it that we do these things because of motivation and the nostalgic feeling of accepting that we have failed and also the thought of accepting failure too early when we could have do...