Depending on the traumas we've gone through, our level of tolerance tends to adjust on the scale of emotional intelligence. I said this to say that people who have not had any real physical or dire emotional challenges in the past do tend to careless, while those who have had an opposite experience tend to care more about certain things. Vice Versa. Let me break it down. Quick declaimer here: this is not in anyway an advice or professional statement by a therapist or psychologist, but just a mental note that is born out of personal experiences. So, take for example some one who has gone through a very devastating breakup with someone that they really loved and thought that they were going to spend the rest off their lives together with, but yet the relationship ended in a very brutal way with little to no considerations from the partner that decide to call things quit. In such a case, it is most like that the person, man or woman, having been really shocked by the incidence of emo...