Holding Yourself Accountable is a Class Act

Making excuses and putting things off is easy, but that won't help you achieve your goals.

Because …

1/ Holding yourself accountable means owning your actions and decisions,

Yes, I get it, it's not always easy.

But when you hold yourself responsible for the outcome of your efforts and recognize that you are the one who has the power to make things happen.

You will instantly notice a change in perspective and a feeling of freedom.

There is an apt quote from Steve Maraboli that says “The victim mindset dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.”

In essence, you can't complain about being a victim and at the same time want to change your situation.

You can only successfully change your situation if you are in control and to be in control you have to take responsibility for your actions and own them.

2/ If you want to hold yourself accountable, start by setting realistic and achievable goals and break them down into smaller, manageable steps.

Also, write down your goals and keep them in a visible place to remind yourself of what you're working towards.

You can even create a vision board to help you visualize your goals.

All these are to keep you reminded of the pursuit.

3/ Set up a system of rewards and consequences for yourself. This can be a game-changer for you.

Following this method, you reward yourself whenever you achieve a goal or complete a task. On the other hand, if you don't meet your targets, you hold yourself accountable by accepting the consequences.

4/ Surround yourself with people who will support and encourage you, but who will also hold you accountable. Share your goals with them and ask for their feedback and support.

Importantly also, you have to be honest with yourself and evaluate your progress regularly.

If you're not making the progress you want, take a step back and re-evaluate your approach. Identify what's not working and adjust your strategy accordingly.

5/ Finally, holding yourself accountable means taking ownership of your actions.

Thank you for stopping by.

If you found any value in this, consider reading other posts.

Comments

Reality can be manufactured

The concept of reality, traditionally understood as the sum of all that is real or existent, is undergoing a profound re-evaluation in the modern age. With advances in technology, psychology, and media, it has become evident that reality, as perceived by individuals and societies, can be manufactured. This manufactured reality encompasses altered perceptions, manipulated narratives, and constructed environments, all designed to influence thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs. This article delves into the mechanisms and implications of manufactured reality, examining historical precedents, modern techniques, and future prospects. Propaganda and Public Perception The notion of shaping reality is not new. Throughout history, leaders and governments have used propaganda to influence public perception and control societal narratives. Ancient empires, such as Rome, used monuments, coins, and public ceremonies to craft an image of power and stability. In the 20th century, propagan...

The Day I Felt Powerless

Needless to say, I've had my fair share of frustrating situations and unplanned challenges. But the day I felt powerless was by far one of the most unforgettable experiences on that list. It was the day I had a brisk accident while riding my motorbike, descending from a bridge. The incident happened so fast that if someone had sneezed a second before, they would’ve missed the trailer entirely. But to me—the eye of the beholder—the incident didn’t feel fast at all. I can actually recall it in slow motion. It happened when a van in front of me, for whatever reason best known to the driver (which I will never be able to tell), suddenly decided to slow down rapidly and stop right in the middle of the expressway. And just as quickly, after the incident, the van zoomed off. I wasn’t exactly caught off guard—because, like I said, I saw it happening—but by then, I was already too far gone, in the middle of rolling down the bridge myself. I couldn’t do much else but allow the deed to take i...

You will struggle in life if you don’t know this one thing!

Gratitude in this case is a way in which you show appreciation for something that you have or have access to. It’s giving ∼ that if you appreciate something it tends to increase, just like the saying goes ‘what you focus on expands.’ Gratitude can open up big doors for you that you would ordinarily not have access to. It works like magic and even those who enjoy its largesse may never be able to explain its powers fully. However, what I have seen and can say about it is that; When you show genuine appreciation for something, it puts you in a mood which in turn necessitates the happy emotion. Happy emotion is a very powerful vibe that is magnetic. When you meet a person with a happy vibe you can’t help but get a spice up on your mood as well. So, as I was trying to explain… When you show gratitude and start to exude the powerful emotion of happiness, it becomes easy for people to want to associate with you and thus partake in the vibes. This will ultimately lead to you getting support f...

James Ezenachi

Search This Blog